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Don't be Afraid to Charge What You're Worth

Get over your emotional hang-ups about money. Think instead about the value you're offering your customers.
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I have a love/hate relationship with money, and it has plagued me all my adult life. It's taken me 20 years to extricate myself from a slew of bad money habits and operate around it with less emotion. In business, emotions and money just don't mix.

Ever since starting my own company in 1995, I've struggled with how much to charge for my services. Along with the emotional aspects of managing money, I battled low self-esteem, so putting a dollar value on my work was painful. As I've learned to separate myself from the companies I've owned and run, I can now look at charging for services as a consequence of doing business and not a rating of my personal worthiness.

Professionally, I'm actually worth a lot. There are few people in social media today who can say they've been doing internet and social media in their various incarnations since 1992. But I still cringe when pricing my services or announcing my rates.

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Julie Murphy Casserly, author of The Emotion Behind Money: Building Wealth From the Inside Out, says it all starts "in our own heads, what you think and feel." Your inner thoughts create your belief system, which in turn can become your reality.

"I think it's important for women entrepreneurs to look at what their competition is charging," Casserly says. "People won't hire you if your fees are too low because the perception is that you must not be as good as your competition."

Casserly, who is also a certified financial planner, says her competition charges at least $1,500 for financial planning, but she had difficulty charging $250 when she started out.

Another tip from Casserly about charging for your services is that "you can't be all things to all people. Your target market will pay what the marketplace has proved it will pay."

Casserly says women often undercharge because they feel they aren't good enough or work from inherited beliefs passed down by their parents.

"The key is that over time, [you should] create systems that slightly increase your fees enough to keep the business rolling but also satisfy your emotions behind it all," Casserly recommends. Another suggestion she has is to use a tiered system, in which you charge different fees for different kinds of clients to leverage what the market will bear.

Heather Dominick, creator of the EnergyRICH Success System for Entrepreneurs, distills her advice into three rules:

  • Manage your money story. "When it comes to your money beliefs, it's important to understand specifically as an entrepreneur what you're bringing to the table when connecting with a potential client in the area of money," Dominick says. "Whatever you believe you know about someone else and their money story, you don't know."
Often we're convinced we understand what this person does or does not have, can or cannot pay, creating thoughts, judgments and beliefs that can literally create an "energetic barrier" between us and our potential customer.

Says Dominick, "You need to have your money energy running clean and clear, and able to take a powerful stand for the full value and worth of your service."

  • Shift from "dollars for hours" to "packaged value." Dominick calls her approach the "Papa, Mama, Baby Approach" because Goldilocks is the perfect example of a client trying to find the right fit, she says. A potential client is attracted to your business, so you should try to find the best way to serve her through package options.

"Basically, people like to have options," Dominick says. "If you've attracted them to you, and then all you have is one option and that [option] doesn't work for them, then what? There's a high percentage chance that they'll walk."

By providing programs and packages, you give potential customers choices, so they can focus on the value you offer rather than the amount of time you spent. Your rates can then reflect this value, and you don't have to live from appointment to appointment, wondering when a client will return.

  • Offer A Guarantee. Be bold and guarantee your service, Dominick says. "The key to offering a guarantee is to speak to what you have control over. You can guarantee what folks will receive from you. You can't guarantee what they will do with it," she says.

The power of a guarantee gives your business strength. With that strength, you demonstrate increased value. That, in turn, can translate into higher rates.

In my case, I brought on a trusted business partner whose strengths include corporate finance. She's not only putting our services into packaged offerings but is helping me rethink my own money story. I've always been good with numbers, but I've put myself down so much that I've come to believe my own naysaying. Having a supportive business partner complimenting me on some good decisions I'm making about company money has been a big boost to my money confidence. And that's going to be a huge boost to business.

Aliza Sherman is a producer, entrepreneur and author of Powertools for Women in Business , as well as co-founder of MotherhoodLater ... Than Sooner. Links to her work can be found at www.mediaegg.com.
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  • Brianne Joseph

    Thank you so much for shedding some light on this topic for me. I am working on my business plan and I was beginning to under value myself as a new business owner when projecting my numbers. You reminded me of my worth and gave me some pointers on how to impart that value to others. Thanks!

  • Gloria

    Good article, I have struggled with this same problem. As women business owners you want to be competitive yet cover your expenses and turn a profit. I find that charging by the hour versus a flat rate when possible is better (because you never know when a project will be extended due to unforeseen circumstances) and you have already locked in a price quote. So yes, I now conduct more research to price services right and stay in line with the competition. Also, if your clients are willing to share via a survey this will help to better determine your price strategy.

  • Loren Fogelman

    Great post and all true. The good news is that once you become aware of your behavior, change can happen. The bottom line is about creating congruency between what you say is important to you and your actions. There is a lot of negative beliefs around money and feeling "worthy." Choose to clear the blocks to asking for what you are worth. Give yourself permission to receive compensation for your services. Begin to value what you do and watch your clients respond to that energy. It is transformative.

  • Nicole France

    This is a GREAT reminder. I definitely under value myself as a consultant.

  • Jill Stemm

    I also have a real problem with what to charge people for my services.I think a lot of this comes from when I was growing up my mom always taught us not to be greedy and over charge people and you never ever charged family. When I first started my website four years ago I researched prices for my services and I was outraged at what people were charging. On my website I offer some business packages, web design, advertising packages, Google help, and help writing ad copy. Even still my prices are very low and in light of the economy being so bad right now I set up a price negotiable offer. Where the customer can email me with a price they can afford versus what I have my offer priced at. I am sure many of you are saying I am nuts but I believe in being honest and in my mind if I am working from home and don't have any overhead, and the work is mostly ran through prgrams i have designed so it is not taking me a huge amount of time to complete the job. Also with my web design section I offer to design simple web pages for $50.00 I make this offer because when I was starting out I used to love reading online business opportunity offers where they stated or assumed that you had $1000 startup money put back to back your business. Well I have worked very hard for what I have accomplished because I started with less than $100 in startup money. If I found I something I thought my company would benefit from I would wait and save the money until I could afford it. Of course we had a house full of four kids and my husband had just been put on workers compensation due to a surgery that went bad. I guess my biggest down fall is I feel compassion for people, I love to help people, and I understand what it is like to want something so bad and not to be able to afford it. So I still set my prices low and feel good about it because I feel I am giving someone an opportunity they miht not have other wise had. If you want to check out how my price negotiable offers are set up and see what prices I am offering so you understand more of what I am saying go look at my site http://www.stemmenterprise.com and I have had people ask why I price things so low and my response is well I can raise them if you want me too but I like to be nice and I have other sources of income so why try to make a fortune off of one avenue?

  • Mark

    Awesome post, great way to put it in perspective. I just started my own web management business and have agonized over this same thing. I plan on writing about this same thing on my blog: http://www.internetmarketingpursuits.com

  • juliestevenson23

    "Very timely post! As a service professional the packaged value approach is critical, because if we are always doing the "dollars for hours" trade, we'll never reach our prosperity potential, and we'll get burned out in the process. I recommend all service professionals look at their offerings and create a few distinct areas to build trust and attract clients at their different levels of "readiness": a no-barrier for entry offer (ie complimentary), low-barrier to entry, mid-level, and high-level (core services)."



    I'm definitely right there with you, Aliza. The "dollars for hours" trade is something I've never wanted to be apart of. That's why I've worked so hard establishing myself as a freelance, and independent worker. That way I can take on which projects I want, when I want, and make exponentially more then if I was at a desk job.



    And yes, I do responsibly use my credit cards, too, although, it's very tough not to go over the limit when it's just a swipe away, be careful! :)



    - Julie, Credit Reports (Financial Advisor/Rep)

  • Michele

    Good article because I struggle with this problem all the time...what too charge and is it too much. In actuality, I charge too little as Aliza states above, always wondering if I am actually that good...and everyone tells me, I am. Why is it then that I have such a hard time believing I am that good?



    I have actually been working for FREE for the last 3 years trying to get my name out there and get established. Today, even in this bad economy, it is actually starting to pay off...to my amazement. I view my talent as that above most others. I go above and beyond what others in my field do not do and I "package" the whole thing. I don't have all those extra fees for this and that...everything is included. So from now on, I will keep telling myself...yes, I am that good and I don't have to fear charging what I'm worth!

  • Amy Franko - www.linkedin.com/

    Very timely post!



    As a service professional the packaged value approach is critical, because if we are always doing the "dollars for hours" trade, we'll never reach our prosperity potential, and we'll get burned out in the process.



    I recommend all service professionals look at their offerings and create a few distinct areas to build trust and attract clients at their different levels of "readiness": a no-barrier for entry offer (ie complimentary), low-barrier to entry, mid-level, and high-level (core services).

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